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Helping Couples Face ED With Courage and Connection
Overview
Erectile dysfunction (ED) affects millions of men and their partners, yet many patients remain silent out of fear, shame, or lack of resources. These two companion books, written by Jay Richard with a foreword from William Figlesthaler, M.D., FACS, provide practical guidance, hope, and encouragement for both men and their partners.
Book 1: When Pills Stop Working: A Complete Guide to Advanced Solutions for Men
- Written directly for men living with ED.
- Explains treatment options when pills stop working.
- Provides step-by-step guidance through surgery, recovery, and life after treatment.
- Reassures men they are not alone and that solutions exist.
Book 2: When Hope Feels Lost: A Complete Guide to Supporting Him Through Treatment
- Written for the partners of men facing ED.
- Provides emotional support, reassurance, and practical tools.
- Emphasizes that ED is not the partner’s fault, and healing is a shared journey.
- Offers ways to rebuild intimacy and walk forward together.
Why These Books Matter
- Reduce stigma and encourage open conversations.
- Provide clear, compassionate patient education.
- Support both the patient and the partner for better outcomes.
- Reinforce your role as a physician who cares about the whole relationship, not just the condition.
Ordering Information
- Available individually or as a companion set on Amazon.
- Bulk copies available for practices. Contact us for details.
Patient Resource Sheet
ED: You’re Not Alone – Hope for You and Your Partner
What You Should Know
ED is a common medical condition. You are not alone. It’s not just a physical issue – it affects emotions, confidence, and relationships. Effective treatments exist, even if medications no longer work. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
For You (Men)
Learn about real solutions beyond pills. Read the story of someone who walked this road and found healing. Discover how to restore intimacy and confidence. Explore lifestyle changes and therapies that can make a significant difference in your journey towards recovery.
For Your Partner
Understand that ED is not your fault. Get encouragement and tools to walk this journey together. Find new ways to rebuild connection and intimacy. Learn how to support your partner emotionally and physically and discover the importance of open communication in maintaining a healthy relationship.
Recommended Resources
Book 1:
When Pills Stop Working – A Complete Guide to Advanced Solutions for Men
Book 2:
When Hope Feels Lost – A Complete Guide to Supporting Him Through Treatment
Next Steps
Talk openly with your doctor. Ask questions. You don’t have to face this alone. Consider joining a support group where you can share experiences and gain insights from others who understand what you’re going through.
Here are 20 comprehensive resources
for those affected by erectile dysfunction:
Medical Organizations & Information
American Urological Association (AUA)
- Website:
- Comprehensive ED guidelines, treatment options, and physician finder
Sexual Medicine Society of North America (SMSNA)
- Website:
- Specialist directory and evidence-based treatment information
Mayo Clinic – Erectile Dysfunction
- Website:
www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/erectile-dysfunction
- Symptoms, causes, treatments, and lifestyle recommendations
Cleveland Clinic – Men’s Health
- Website:
www.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/10035-erectile-dysfunction
- Patient education and treatment center locator
WebMD – Erectile Dysfunction Health Center
- Website:
www.webmd.com/erectile-dysfunction
- Basic information, drug interaction checker, and symptom tracker
Professional Support & Therapy
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT)
- Website:
- Certified sex therapist directory and educational resources
Psychology Today – Sex Therapist Directory
- Website:
www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/sex-therapy
- Searchable database of qualified therapists by location
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT)
- Website:
- Couples’ therapist finder for relationship support
Support Communities & Forums
Frank Talk – Penile Implant Support Community
- Website:
- Peer support forum for men considering or having penile implants
HealingWell – Erectile Dysfunction Support Forum
- Website:
www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=30
- Moderated discussion forum for men and partners
Reddit – r/erectiledysfunction
- Website:
www.reddit.com/r/erectiledysfunction
- Anonymous Community Support And Information Sharing
Crisis & Mental Health Support
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
- Phone: 988
- 24/7 crisis support for mental health emergencies
- Crisis Text Line
- Text HOME to 741741
- Free, confidential crisis counseling via text
SAMHSA National Helpline
Phone: 1-800-662-4357
- Mental health and substance abuse treatment referrals
Educational Resources & Books
Harvard Health Publishing – Men’s Health
- Website:
www.health.harvard.edu/topics/mens-health
- Evidence-based articles on ED and overall men’s health
The Journal of Sexual Medicine
- Website:
- Peer-reviewed research (though technical, useful for the latest findings)
International Society for Sexual Medicine
- Website:
- Educational materials and global treatment guidelines
Lifestyle & Wellness Resources
American Heart Association – Men’s Health
- Website:
www.heart.org/en/health-topics/consumer-healthcare/what-is-cardiovascular-disease/mens-health
- Cardiovascular health connection to ED
National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases
- Website:
www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/urologic-diseases/erectile-dysfunction
- Government resources on ED causes and treatments
Urology Care Foundation
- Website:
www.urologyhealth.org/urologic-conditions/erectile-dysfunction
- Patient education materials and treatment guides
Important Notes:
- Always verify that healthcare providers are licensed and credentialed.
- Online forums provide peer support but should not replace professional medical advice.
- Crisis resources are available 24/7 for anyone experiencing thoughts of self-harm.
- Some resources may require creating accounts or may have membership fees for premium content.
- These resources provide a comprehensive foundation for medical information, professional support, peer connection, and crisis intervention for anyone affected by erectile dysfunction.
Practical solutions backed by experience,
designed for real couples.
About Jay Richard:
Jay Richard writes for men and couples who want straight answers and practical next steps. After years of trial‑and‑error with common ED treatments, he chose a definitive solution and documented the journey so others wouldn’t have to walk it blind. His approach is direct and respectful, no scare tactics, no shame, just what to expect, the trade‑offs, and how to talk with a clinician like an adult.
Jay blends lived experience with careful research and conversations with specialists. He focuses on the decisions that matter: when pills stall out, how to evaluate advanced options, how to involve your partner, and how to reclaim confidence along the way. He lives in Florida, stays active, and continues to collaborate with physicians and patients to keep information current and useful.
Is this medical advice?
No. The books are educational. Always talk with a qualified clinician before making changes to your health plan.
Are the books discreet?
Yes, straight talk, no shock value. We keep language respectful and practical.
Where can I buy?
Amazon links are on each book page (links above). Additional retailers coming soon.
Two Companion Books
One for Men, One for Partners
Endorsed by
Dr. William Figlesthaler, MD, FACS.
“As a urologist, I’ve seen how ED affects both men and their partners.
These books offer clarity, encouragement,
and practical resources for the journey.” Dr. Fig
Why These Books Matter
Erectile dysfunction doesn’t just affect men — it touches both partners and the relationship itself. These guides are written with honesty, compassion, and hope, offering couples a clear path forward. Whether you’re the one facing ED or the one walking beside him, these books will help you understand, connect, and grow stronger together.
When Pills Stop Working: A Complete Guide to Advanced Solutions for Men
Find Advanced Solutions
ED doesn’t improve on its own, and waiting typically leads to worsening symptoms. You’re not alone—millions of men face this challenge successfully. Modern medicine offers highly effective solutions, and you deserve satisfying intimate relationships. This book gives men the tools, encouragement, and courage to take the next step.
Dr. William Figlesthaler, MD, FACS
From Dr Fig’s Foreword Excerpt:
“This book serves as a resource for those struggling in silence, as well as for their loved ones and healthcare providers. May it serve as a guide, a source of hope, and a reminder that no one must face this journey alone.”
Dr. William Figlesthaler, MD, FACS
When Hope Feels Lost: A Complete Guide to Supporting Him Through Treatment
Discover How to Support Him
Your support, understanding, and encouragement can make the difference between treatment success and continued suffering. Remember that this affects you too, and you’re not a bystander on this journey.” Written for partners, this book provides practical ways to walk beside your loved one, rebuild intimacy, and find strength together.
Dr. William Figlesthaler, MD, FACS
From Dr Fig’s Foreword Excerpt:
“May this book serve as your roadmap to navigating these difficult waters together, and may it remind you that with understanding, patience, and the right resources, love truly can conquer all obstacles.”
Dr. William Figlesthaler, MD, FACS
Standing Strong Together
“As a urologist, I have seen how ED affects not only men but also their partners and families. These books provide clarity, encouragement, and practical resources to help couples walk this road with strength and dignity.”
From "When Pills Stop Working" Foreword
by William Figlesthaler, M.D., FACS
For Doctors
A Resource for Your Patients This is more than one man’s story—it’s a practical guide filled with lived experience, medical insight, and hope. From pills to advanced solutions, from surgery to recovery, it shows patients (and their partners) what’s possible.
“Endorsed by medical professionals.”
“Courage is required, but the courage to seek help is far easier than the courage to keep living with the problem.”
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